Do you wish there are signs that can tell you if he is really in love with you? If you do, then you would be grateful to know that there are signs or ways he is showing you that you failed to pick up on. Here is a checklist that may help you find out if his feelings are for real.
He is a keeper if he does the following:
1. He does not dwell on your past but sees the future.
He really loves you if he does not care about your past relationships, mistakes and choices that you have made. He knows that your previous relationships (or marriages) have shaped you into a better person so he does not dwell on them. In spite of your past, he still sees a future with you. This means he is truly in love with you.
2. He is very attentive to your needs (and even wants).
He truly loves you if he listens to whatever you are saying and responds to you with something great. For instance, if you are too busy to make dinner, he makes you dinner instead. It is true love when he brings you a comforting item when you have a bad day. This only shows that he only wants to make you happy and does not want to see you sad.
3. He is is willing to compromise just to make you happy.
Love may also mean compromising. If he loves you dearly, he meets you halfway on issues that truly matter to you. He goes the extra mile, if he knows it makes you happy.
4. He accepts you for who and what you are.
It is not love if he tries to change you into a person that he envisions. He loves you if he wants the whole package: the good and the bad. This is what a real commitment is all about. No matter what your character flaws are, he finds a way to love them and supports you if you want to change them.
5. He supports and helps you even during your darkest hour.
No matter what you are going through, he is not scared. Instead, he runs with you and opens his arms wide enough to support you. A man who shows compassion through your darkest hour is the man who loves you dearly. He does not bail on you when things are getting difficult.
6. He does the chasing.
He is really into you if he does the chasing. If it is the other way around, then he is not into you. The relationship will only work if both of you are into each other.