How to dump a guy isn’t easy. You know it’s over between you two but you can’t just say it to him without upsetting him. However, if you continue doing it, then it’s not him you’re hurting. Rather, it’s you.
Now, you want to know how you’re going to break it off nicely. But before you follow the tips listed below, make sure that you don’t show him that you’re a little nervous. One thing that you can do is to apply an antiperspirant and deodorant that can reduce your excessive sweating. In this way, you’ll feel confident to break things off with him.
1. Ask him to meet you
Don’t follow what the Hollywood celebrities are doing these days on how to dump a guy. It’s rude and you’ll leave him wondering what went wrong. By meeting and talking to him in person, you’ll be able to air your side directly. Be honest about how you feel. He may not understand it instantly but he will.
2. Tell him that it’s your fault
The best way not to hurt him when you’re about to dump him is to blame yourself. Laying all the blame on him isn’t a good idea. Rather, it’ll just start a fight between you two. Tell him that you’re not ready yet to continue this relationship.
3. Allow him to think and talk
You shouldn’t expect him to answer you immediately. Keep in mind that you’re breaking up with him and, it’s more likely that he’s very much in love with you. Respect his silence and give him a few minutes to digest what you just said.
Then, allow him to talk. If he’s angry with you, let him be. Let him shout, scream, or even cry. Respect his feelings. But don’t get trapped in that loop again, i.e. you’ll have him back after he cried in front of you. Saying “no” will give you inner peace.
4. Let him go
If he doesn’t want to talk to you after the big “B” revelation, then allow him to walk away from you without saying a word. He needs time to think and clear things up in his own space.
Once you’ve said your piece, then it’s time for you to walk away from that relationship. It’s easier for the two of you if you’re not checking in on each other. If he’s asking for you to be friends, then tell him it’s okay but not right now. Tell him that both of you need some time apart.
Learning these tips on how to dump a guy may sound easy but in reality, it’s really not. However, if you do it carefully, you can break things off without further hurting your and his feelings.Image courtesy of [Stuart Miles] / FreeDigitalPhotos.net